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💌 looking back at my blogging in 2023
published 2 years ago
💌 40 questions to ask yourself every year, 2023 ed.
published 2 years ago
💌 don't miss more than a day in a row
published 2 years ago
💌 shooting blind
published 2 years ago
💌 hotpot and imposter syndrome
published 2 years ago
💌 saying goodbye to the holidays
published 2 years ago
💌 you will have a better life if you just stay home (or maybe not)
published 2 years ago
💌 never use a verb other than "said" to carry dialogue
published 2 years ago
💌 a writing tool + re: make them reject you
published 2 years ago
💌 what happens to a dream deferred?
published 2 years ago
💌 hedging for happiness + a menu of joys
published 2 years ago
💌 what i wish someone had told me in high school
published 2 years ago
💌 re: playing at work, by sam wonders
published 2 years ago
💌 in which i learn that dogwalking is harder than i anticipated
published 2 years ago
💌 observations from two weeks of writing everyday
published 2 years ago
💌 on writing forever and being a good Bear citizen
published 2 years ago
💌 hug your loved ones tighter for me
published 2 years ago
💌 winter cravings + models overtrained on men/women
published 2 years ago
💌 back to high school
published 2 years ago
💌 you can't write a good story following a formula
published 2 years ago
💌 what is important is seldom urgent
published 2 years ago
💌 falling down the stairs
published 2 years ago
💌 coding again, from the writer that doesn't write
published 2 years ago
💌 recalibrating my job hunt with helpful reader advice
published 2 years ago
💌 it turns out forks are fucking everywhere
published 2 years ago
💌 blank cards
published 2 years ago
💌 the last paycheck
published 2 years ago
💌 30 day song challenge
published 2 years ago
💌 feeling flat
published 2 years ago
💌 lasciate ogne speranza, voi ch'intrate
published 2 years ago
💌 sitting on dogs, again
published 2 years ago
💌 actor-observer bias + "be a goldfish"
published 2 years ago
💌 what if i hate who i'm becoming / and my young heart never runs free?
published 2 years ago
💌 still believe in good days
published 2 years ago
💌 (in which i get) free interview practice
published 2 years ago
💌 nobody knows you when you're down and out
published 2 years ago
💌 life, liberty, and the pursuit of rush tickets
published 2 years ago
💌 love in the time of tinder
published 2 years ago
💌 that funny feeling again
published 2 years ago
💌 the unbearable fullness of being [a glutton]
published 2 years ago
💌 happyb rthday
published 2 years ago
💌 on being a "no sabo" kid
published 2 years ago
💌 damned if i do, damned if i don't
published 2 years ago
💌 three hundred posts (!) + (more) kind reader advice
published 2 years ago
💌 wild old dogs
published 2 years ago
💌 dreaming of saturn
published 2 years ago
💌 if you give a mayfly a minute
published 2 years ago
💌 re: things to think about when blogging
published 2 years ago
💌 branded on my feet
published 2 years ago
💌 voir dire and jury duty
published 2 years ago
💌 my cup runneth over
published 2 years ago
💌 practically running a dog hotel at this point
published 2 years ago
💌 attention, not time, is my love language
published 2 years ago
💌 slumping my way into vacation
published 2 years ago
💌 cancún, day 0
published 2 years ago
💌 si vivo cien años, cien años pienso en ti (cancún, day 1)
published 2 years ago
💌 "Mango" - La Lá (lyrics/letra en/es)
published 2 years ago
💌 cancún, day 2: playa del niño, palacio municipal
published 2 years ago
💌 bajo el cielo de kukulcan (cancún, day 3)
published 2 years ago
💌 ¿será que estamos mal / y somos indefensos?
published 2 years ago
💌 sixty minutes to make life fair
published 2 years ago
💌 paid in blood
published 2 years ago
💌 not everything is as it seems
published 2 years ago
💌 these are the days that must happen to you
published 2 years ago
💌 the water is spangles off soft blue
published 2 years ago
💌 death of a bachelorette
published 2 years ago
💌 the promises we leave behind (sf recap)
published 2 years ago
💌 do it franticly (sic) / you will live
published 2 years ago
💌 a monkey in silk
published 2 years ago
💌 ésa es la vida que te tocó vivir
published 2 years ago
💌 the faces gone with the wind
published 2 years ago
💌 excerpt from "john wayne: a love song"
published 2 years ago
💌 because every day is all there is
published 2 years ago
💌 the premortem
published 2 years ago
💌 do you smell the smoke?
published 2 years ago
💌 there may be more beautiful times
published 2 years ago
💌 a most lazy sunday
published 2 years ago
💌 suffering because i fear
published 2 years ago
💌 euphoria
published 2 years ago
💌 are we still playing soccer back in that sunny june afternoon?
published 2 years ago
💌 the fragility of all we hold dear
published 2 years ago
💌 sumimasening my way around
published 2 years ago
💌 flying back one hour and fourteen years
published 2 years ago
💌 the homecoming pauper
published 2 years ago
💌 a long uncomfortable look in the mirror
published 2 years ago
💌 the dust bowl
published 2 years ago
💌 we don’t get to choose our memories
published 2 years ago
💌 hard pills to swallow
published 2 years ago
💌 skinny dipping with the elderly
published 2 years ago
💌 not all who wander are lost
published 2 years ago
💌 re: the fear of audience expectations, by gabby
published 2 years ago
💌 even the dustiest of streets has a place in memory
published 2 years ago
💌 tokyo, day 0-1: ginza, tsukiji, ueno
published 2 years ago
💌 tokyo, day 2: asakusa, oshiage, shibuya, harajuku
published 2 years ago
💌 tokyo, day 3: roppongi, harajuku (again), lidabashi
published 2 years ago
💌 沈阳 photo dump（mostly 老北市）
published 2 years ago
💌 大连 photo dump
published 2 years ago
💌 gutting my wardrobe + clippings from cannery row
published 2 years ago
💌 who's afraid of a big bad word?
published 2 years ago
💌 in my lame duck era (& when does the frog jump out of the pot?)
published 2 years ago
💌 nothing nonnegotiable
published 2 years ago
💌 parecen viernes
published 2 years ago
💌 great american scream machines (astoria park carnival)
published 2 years ago
💌 looking back over a lifetime, you see that love was the answer to everything
published 2 years ago
💌 gantry plaza state park
published 2 years ago
💌 2-5x happiness increases are possible (first day jitters)
published 2 years ago
💌 so it begins (pick one)
published 2 years ago
💌 counting my blessings
published 2 years ago
💌 there are weeks where decades happen
published 2 years ago
💌 sit still, look pretty
published 2 years ago
💌 reader request: my note-taking system
published 2 years ago
💌 what you have now was once among the things you only hoped for
published 2 years ago
💌 and the voices in his head began to sing
published 2 years ago
💌 on not knowing what to do in the city with everything
published 2 years ago
💌 academy records & cds (photos)
published 2 years ago
💌 roosevelt island (photos)
published 2 years ago
💌 waiting for the next event on my calendar to arrive
published 2 years ago
💌 potted plant therapy
published 2 years ago
💌 você quer jogar comigo?
published 2 years ago
💌 this love is strong, why do i feel weak?
published 2 years ago
💌 “love after love” by david walcott
published 2 years ago
💌 letter “to nicholas hughes [undated 1986]”
published 2 years ago
💌 struggling with the scale
published 2 years ago
💌 a night at the opera (outdoors)
published 2 years ago
💌 le cygne (prospect park)
published 2 years ago
💌 "go to the limits of your longing" by rainer maria rilke
published 2 years ago
💌 we the people, or something
published 2 years ago
💌 one month of work
published 2 years ago
💌 do you remember when
published 2 years ago
💌 protecting my weekends
published 2 years ago
💌 clippings from bookbear express
published 2 years ago
💌 slapping watermelons
published 2 years ago
💌 ¡qué palta!
published 2 years ago
💌 en qué arrabal te me escondiste
published 2 years ago
💌 reacquainting myself with my first love
published 2 years ago
💌 where wouldn’t we go to be no one and those people again?
published 2 years ago
💌 ⭐️ i know love as a fading thing
published 2 years ago
💌 goodbye to all that
published 2 years ago
💌 crossover events
published 2 years ago
💌 cauliflowers and other tiny beautiful things
published 2 years ago
💌 little mermaid
published 2 years ago
💌 suffering in imagination and reality
published 2 years ago
💌 writing my thinking
published 2 years ago
💌 do not fear the scales (400 posts!)
published 2 years ago
💌 dreaming of a low country boil
published 2 years ago
💌 it was loud yet quiet
published 2 years ago
💌 be first a good animal
published 2 years ago
💌 the strip mall of your dreams
published 2 years ago
💌 ignorance is bliss
published 2 years ago
💌 (now a) shakshuka purveyor
published 2 years ago
💌 cuando el pobre lava, llueve
published 2 years ago
💌 clippings from east of eden (part 3 - chapter 24)
published 2 years ago
💌 there is no secret
published 2 years ago
💌 incroyable!
published 2 years ago
💌 mild case of the sunday scaries
published 2 years ago
💌 i am happy when you are all happy
published 2 years ago
💌 do you love something if you don't miss it when it's gone?
published 2 years ago
💌 the winds of change are blowing wild and free
published 2 years ago
💌 everything you've ever wanted is on the other side of fear
published 2 years ago
💌 there may be more beautiful times, but this one is ours
published 2 years ago
💌 coffee chats and donut dates
published 2 years ago
💌 will i be missed when i’m gone?
published 2 years ago
💌 what i'm grasping for is not a place, but a feeling
published 2 years ago
💌 strings pulling me this way and that
published 2 years ago
💌 although of course you end up [not knowing] yourself
published 2 years ago
💌 there are many ways to change the world
published 2 years ago
💌 missed time
published 2 years ago
💌 walking the walk
published 2 years ago
💌 don't leave me, september
published 2 years ago
💌 twenty-four hours
published 2 years ago
💌 the great jack-o'-lantern blaze
published 2 years ago
💌 timely!!
published 2 years ago
💌 not during my lunch break
published 2 years ago
💌 yip yip (a:tla in concert)
published 2 years ago
💌 the best mutz in hoboken
published 2 years ago
💌 what they really enjoy is feeling proof against it
published 2 years ago
💌 wake up calls
published 2 years ago
💌 surcharge for bad taste
published 2 years ago
💌 “this is how writers fall in love”
published 2 years ago
💌 blood work
published 2 years ago
💌 clippings from “against narrative”
published 2 years ago
💌 chicken noodle soup for the soul
published 2 years ago
💌 what about the plans we made?
published 2 years ago
💌 of course we will hurt each other
published 2 years ago
💌 try stay longer
published 2 years ago
💌 now that you’re away, i’ll just spend my life not knowing
published 2 years ago
💌 is the sky still blue?
published 2 years ago
💌 happiness economies and inner sanctums
published 2 years ago
💌 take your kids to work day
published 2 years ago
💌 the eighth letter (rilke)
published 2 years ago
💌 i hope happiness is always in all your corners
published 2 years ago
💌 dissociating scaries
published 2 years ago
💌 life's little apologies
published 2 years ago
💌 brownies à la mode
published 2 years ago
💌 so which is the lie? silence or time?
published 2 years ago
💌 the pangs of your sadness will pass as your senses will rise
published 2 years ago
💌 not because i should
published 2 years ago
💌 reclaiming things for myself
published 2 years ago
💌 se acercan tiempos oscuros (el finde)
published 2 years ago
💌 stay the course
published 2 years ago
💌 "everything" by sharon olds
published 2 years ago
💌 "for the children" by gary snyder
published 2 years ago
💌 "the more loving one" by w. h. auden
published 2 years ago
💌 ⭐️ if this isn't nice, i don't know what is
published 2 years ago
💌 how fragile, we bloom
published 23 months ago
💌 ⭐️ shop like an artist
published 23 months ago
💌 tempting the street food gods
published 23 months ago
💌 in every language there is a word for it
published 23 months ago
💌 if you give a misu a cookie (or ten)
published 23 months ago
💌 great migrations
published 23 months ago
💌 "wild geese" by mary oliver
published 23 months ago
💌 you have decided being scared is caused mostly by thinking
published 23 months ago
💌 lying to myself
published 23 months ago
💌 the absurdity of the asian potluck
published 23 months ago
💌 back to december
published 23 months ago
💌 "tomorrow is a place" by sanna wani
published 23 months ago
💌 somebody said dignity was the first to leave
published 23 months ago
💌 "from one stranger to another" by kyle seamus brosnihan
published 23 months ago
💌 "coming home" by mary oliver
published 23 months ago
💌 "greenland" by kyle seamus brosnihan
published 23 months ago
💌 ⭐️ toeing the edges of my comfort zone
published 23 months ago
💌 returning to the land of the well
published 22 months ago
💌 it was warm food on a cold day
published 22 months ago
💌 looking into the lost forgotten years
published 22 months ago
💌 home for the holidays
published 22 months ago
💌 more to life
published 22 months ago
💌 every love story is a ghost story
published 22 months ago
💌 my heart has joined the thousand (dear N)
published 22 months ago
💌 a complete unknown
published 22 months ago
💌 '24 reading year in review
published 22 months ago
💌 24 notes for the year
published 22 months ago
💌 receding treelines
published 22 months ago
💌 ⭐️ seeking happyness in the pursuit
published 22 months ago
💌 ⭐️ i want; i hate that i do (the crane wife)
published 22 months ago
💌 a bird without a nest
published 22 months ago
💌 dark winter days
published 22 months ago
💌 listening to disappointment
published 22 months ago
💌 please come again soon
published 21 months ago
💌 tomorrow is a long time
published 21 months ago
💌 love is believing in their reality
published 21 months ago
💌 the gods wait to delight in you
published 21 months ago
💌 for time is the longest distance between two places
published 21 months ago
💌 the bear blog question challenge
published 21 months ago
💌 look how far we've come (500 posts later)
published 21 months ago
💌 learning english as a 1.5st language (re: lili)
published 21 months ago
💌 a night at the opera
published 21 months ago
💌 what we talk about when we talk about love
published 21 months ago
💌 work therapy
published 21 months ago
💌 everything ate everything else with a furious exuberance
published 21 months ago
💌 (following the) blood on the tracks
published 21 months ago
💌 i'll be wrong about everything
published 21 months ago
💌 the first proper snowfall
published 20 months ago
💌 steaming from inside out
published 20 months ago
💌 signs of life
published 20 months ago
💌 eggland's best
published 20 months ago
💌 conditional friendships
published 20 months ago
💌 call her green (a day in ridgewood)
published 20 months ago
💌 please do not die now
published 20 months ago
💌 quick, make a wish / a shooting star
published 20 months ago
💌 where have you been, my blue-skied sun
published 20 months ago
💌 ⭐️ killing the group chat (again)
published 20 months ago
💌 you better get back, honky cat
published 20 months ago
💌 a man with no alibi
published 19 months ago
💌 the guggenheim + albertine
published 19 months ago
💌 hip-hopping out of my comfort zone
published 19 months ago
💌 foggy day
published 19 months ago
💌 nobuyuki tsujii @ carnegie hall
published 19 months ago
💌 hello and goodbye, audiobooks
published 19 months ago
💌 expecting rain
published 19 months ago
💌 leif ove andsnes @ carnegie hall
published 19 months ago
💌 sunset blvd
published 19 months ago
💌 go skateboarding (chinatown food crawl)
published 19 months ago
💌 crave sourdough (clinton hill)
published 19 months ago
💌 a day of detours (moma, nypl, elmhurst food crawl)
published 18 months ago
💌 the promised land
published 18 months ago
💌 april showers
published 18 months ago
💌 california, i’m coming home
published 18 months ago
💌 i’ll look for you in san francisco
published 18 months ago
💌 lost causes
published 18 months ago
💌 weary of listening to the nonsense (carmel)
published 18 months ago
💌 "cryptography" by anne farnsworth
published 18 months ago
💌 cannery row (monterey)
published 18 months ago
💌 the first days of spring
published 18 months ago
💌 what are we even doing here? (forest hills, murray hill)
published 18 months ago
💌 back so soon?
published 18 months ago
💌 no hace falta tan poco
published 17 months ago
💌 i pretend i do not see it
published 17 months ago
💌 on the cusp
published 17 months ago
💌 "what the living do" by marie howe
published 17 months ago
💌 the incorrigible optimist
published 17 months ago
💌 "autobiography" by jen levitt
published 17 months ago
💌 "rookie" by caroline bird
published 17 months ago
💌 you [might not] have a better time if you just stay at home
published 17 months ago
💌 maycember
published 17 months ago
💌 randall's island, rfk bridge
published 17 months ago
💌 courting boredom
published 17 months ago
💌 memory day
published 17 months ago
💌 "waiting" by hua xi
published 17 months ago
💌 questioning the dedication
published 16 months ago
💌 india square (journal sq, hoboken)
published 16 months ago
💌 the workversary (1)
published 16 months ago
💌 "send flowers" by hua xi
published 16 months ago
💌 listlessness
published 16 months ago
💌 the other chinatown (adventurers and scholars)
published 16 months ago
💌 clippings from mary ruefle's "madness, rack, and honey"
published 16 months ago
💌 recovering from ktv
published 16 months ago
💌 i want to hear from you! (misu readership survey)
published 16 months ago
💌 the first days of summer
published 16 months ago
💌 (not so) excellent sheep
published 16 months ago
💌 forgetting everything
published 15 months ago
💌 strawberry shortcake cupcakes (not a recipe)
published 15 months ago
💌 ten million fireflies
published 15 months ago
💌 pre-fourth festivities
published 15 months ago
💌 time is wet / dive in old fish
published 15 months ago
💌 ⭐️ música para abrir el cielo (te amo, maye)
published 15 months ago
💌 o jogo bonito (the beautiful game)
published 15 months ago
💌 hot people read poetry
published 15 months ago
💌 hot people read poetry
published 15 months ago
💌 how i feel about dining out (abuqir seafood, levant)
published 15 months ago
💌 a walk in the hursts
published 15 months ago
💌 when that moment arrives
published 14 months ago
💌 crossing the potomac (dc recap)
published 14 months ago
💌 what goes up...
published 14 months ago
💌 in the tangents
published 14 months ago
💌 queens night market, staten island
published 14 months ago
💌 i'll be bad at everything
published 14 months ago
💌 back in my day
published 14 months ago
💌 choosing to walk (away from AI)
published 13 months ago
💌 some meals from august
published 13 months ago
💌 watching the little theater of hours
published 13 months ago
💌 to the doghouse
published 13 months ago
💌 revisiting old hobbies
published 11 months ago
💌 dyker heights christmas lights
published 10 months ago
💌 sweet november
published 10 months ago
💌 first snow
published 9 months ago
💌 "love poem" by tishani doshi
published 9 months ago
💌 sensitive to life
published 9 months ago
💌 an operatic weekend (or: why you should go the opera)
published 8 months ago
💌 the emperor's new clothes
published 8 months ago
💌 ⭐ see you space cowboy ...
published 8 months ago
💌 a snowstorm of unprecedented proportions
published 8 months ago
💌 all winter in a day
published 8 months ago
💌 trying to rid myself of material desires
published 8 months ago
💌 why there are so few classics on the goodreads top 100
published 8 months ago
💌 chores day (i hate my poems)
published 7 months ago
💌 clearing the drain
published 7 months ago
💌 qué bien que hablas español (cdmx day 1)
published 7 months ago
💌 cdmx days 2-3: pirámides de teotihuacán
published 7 months ago
💌 cdmx day 4: las grutas tolantongo
published 7 months ago
💌 cdmx day 6: coyoacán
published 7 months ago
💌 the exquisite pleasure of being back home
published 7 months ago
💌 posts in the sand
published 7 months ago
💌 "tomorrow" by bernadette mayer
published 7 months ago
💌 the walls are closing in
published 6 months ago
💌 hating on AI writing
published 6 months ago
💌 a week spent horizontally
published 6 months ago
💌 everything looks a little far away to me
published 5 months ago
💌 all the living in a weekend (dc/dmv recap)
published 5 months ago
💌 two poems: wright, rilke
published 5 months ago
💌 peeling garlic
published 5 months ago
💌 home is where i want to be
published 4 months ago
💌 other blogs my readers like
published 4 months ago
💌 trying to imagine sisyphus happy
published 4 months ago
💌 眼保健操 and love as a cheat code for meaning
published 4 months ago
💌 the colbert questionert (farewell, stephen)
published 4 months ago
💌 sundays are for soccer
published 4 months ago
💌 the paradox of choice
published 4 months ago
💌 the season i love
published 3 months ago
💌 so long, spotify
published 3 months ago
💌 three thousand calories before noon
published 3 months ago
💌 in the knick of time
published 3 months ago
💌 the longest days are accompanied by the longest nights
published 2 months ago
💌 it's going to be different
published 2 months ago
💌 i went to the world cup and all i got was my umbrella taken away
published 2 months ago
💌 indonesian food bazaar
published 2 months ago
💌 a hazy day in greenpoint
published 2 months ago
💌 the apartment hunt
published 7 weeks ago
💌 a room of one's own
published 7 weeks ago
💌 the jersey shore
published 6 weeks ago
💌 writers are always selling somebody out
published 5 weeks ago
💌 julieta venegas en vivo
published 5 weeks ago
💌 "the sublime" by steve scafidi
published 5 weeks ago
💌 male living spaces
published 4 weeks ago
💌 party time
published 3 weeks ago
💌 new beginnings
published 2 weeks ago
💌 attending the rain
published 2 weeks ago
💌 the joy of finding out
published 11 days ago
💌 vagabond blues
published 10 days ago
💌 a very chinese time in my life
published 3 days ago
💌 the ships of theseus
published 5 hours ago